VALENTINES DAY

VALENTINES DAY "A festival of love " 

The bee doesn't dream of flowers it blossoms and the bee comes ,
nothing beautiful seeks attention. Do your best and you will get the best. 

Everything seems to be awesome  when you are in love 

Valentine’s Day is celebrated on 14th feb every year it is a festival of love .

Generally it is celebrated by couples , lovers . It's a day when lovers express their feelings to their partner or to whomsoever they feel for .

Moreover it is a festival to welcome spring . February is a month of love where you can see couples walking hand in hand and cherishing their memories and building new ones . 

Saying i love you is not the true meaning of love .  True love means when you are not ready to give up on each other no matter whatever the reason is you  are holding your partner's hand in the hard times . Getting started with a relationship is easy nowadays but building it throughout life is difficult.  Love is nothing else, it's just a feeling , emotions .

 When you are in love with someone, their little efforts will bring a smile on your face .

Love is a mixture of pain, sacrifice , happiness , sorrows  , anger .

When you are in love with a person you can cross any boundaries for that person, everything seems limitless for that person. 

They are not burdens on you in fact you find pleasure in helping them throughout life .When you truly love someone you see them as part of your future . 

A relation of love is full of respect , understanding , loyalty , pride ,maturity, jealousy , fights and sufferings . 

It has been said the couples who have suffered together will last longer . 

ORIGIN OF VALENTINE'S DAY 

Since 14 th century it has been celebrated as a day of romance .

Valentine's day is named after saint valentine who was a 

Catholic have stayed in Rome for 3 centuries .

There were many stories but with the ace of time this story made her a legend .

In the time span of Valentine's life many Romans were forced to convert their religion by The  Emperor Claudius II . He believed that romans soldiers should be completely devoted towards Rome . Hence , pass a law which restricts them from marrying so that they can't get distracted with their personal life . 

St valentine’s took the initiative and started arranging marriages of soldiers in secret christions ceremony with this a beginning of love started. 

When the Emperor came to know about this he arrested St valentine and put her behind the bars . He didn't stop even after getting imprisoned there. He started taking care of fellow prisoners  and also the blind daughter of his daughter and , with his constant efforts, she became successful in curing the blindness of that girl . Before being executed from the jail she left a love message for that girl and ended with “from your valentine” and this was the beginning of valentine's day on 14 february 270 . 

There was a poet named Chaucer who was the first person to link St valentine with romance . 

Eventually it began the tradition of true love , a ritual of expressing love , offering gifts to your loved once . 

All we need is love and it's a valentines week .

A week of love where you can essence love in the air A week where you can find love on every path you cross. 

A week started with a bloom of roses : " ROSE DAY "

Offering flowers to your loved ones is a symbolic representation of showing your love and respect towards your partners. Sometimes flowers can do much which words can't . when someone offers flowers to you it means whatever the situation you  may face but the fragrance of our relationship will never die . our relationship will be like a flower which will take time to grow but with the combined efforts of us it is going to  bloom like a beautiful garden .

Now it time to confess  : " PROPOSE DAY "

Loving someone is easy but expressing your love to that person is way too difficult  . Not everyone is good at expressing . Most of the time we are scared of losing the person if we express our feelings in front of them. But you should not hide your feelings. Maybe the other person also faces the same . If somebody really cares for you they are going to understand and accept you as you are . Music is the good source of expressing your love because music can do wonders . 

It time to add sweetness : " Chocolate Day"  

The main purpose of celebrating chocolate day is to add some sweetness to the bond of love . Offering chocolates to your loved ones means it's going to be a never ending bond with lots of sweetness and different flavours. Sometimes   a relationship may face bitterness but at the end sweetness is going to win. Moreover , offering chocolates  means that our relation is going to be as sweet as chocolates . 

Adding some coziness to the relation :" TEDDY DAY" 

Celebrating teddy day is  way too important as it is a day to express your true feelings by gifting soft and fluffy teddy to your partner. It's a symbolic representation of the warmth of your love for your partner . Sometimes when you are not physically present with your partner then that teddy can fulfill your absence As your partner can hold it into their arms as a memory of you . Gifting teddy to your partner is another way to say “you are special ” for me . 

Different colour teddy has different symbols for instance red teddy describes emotional intensity . whereas orange teddy means full of energy , joy and happiness . Blue teddy means that our bond is going to rock with full of love and happiness . 

It time to assure your partner : " PROMISE DAY " 

It's time to take your relationship to the next level by making a promise to your partner that even in hard times I am going to be by your side . This statement can add a real meaning to your relationship . It adds a feeling of secureness and faith in your relationship . one of the renowned writer has quoted “DON'T EVER PROMISE FOR MORE THAN YOU CAN DELIVER BUT ALWAYS DELIVER FOR MORE THAN YOU HAVE PROMISE”

Which means making false promises is going to hurt your partner some or the other day because other person start expecting from you . 

PROMISES should  always be real whether made out of  love, affection . 

Feeling the warmth of love : " HUG DAY "

It's the 6th day in the series of valentines week. Celebrating hug day is very important because when you give a tight hug to someone your heart beats fast and your heart directly connects to your lover's heart and exchange of some unsaid feelings take place . It's a day when you need not say anything, feelings speak louder . 

 I care for you : "kiss day " 

The concept of celebrating the day is that many people have forgotten the pleasure associated with a kiss . 

Each kiss has different meaning  

1. Kiss on hands means a feeling of a motion of appreciation by a man to his lady .
2. Kiss on forehead demonstrates your feeling of trust and care towards your partner .
3. Kiss on cheeks is an indication of warmth and affection towards your partner .
4. Kiss on collarbones demonstrate the closeness and an extraordinary emotion 
5. Kiss on lips indicates true emotions, an immortal presence of feelings which are never ending . 

Finally it's Valentine's Day, a festival of love .

A day on which you build memories with your partner with your lover . a day full of love and happiness .  A day on which your special one gifts you greetings . 

However , you can make someone feel special throughout the no particular day is required for that but valentine's day is celebrated as a festival of love where you can breath love in the air . 

Nowadays it has seen that youngsters have a craze of celebrating a valentines day . 

You can see teenagers talking about true love they don't even know what true love is all about . generally they are attracted towards some and name it as love .

Coming into a relationship just to satisfy your needs or satisfying ego is very wrong practice done by teenagers. You are just simply hurting someone's feelings just to satisfy your needs . 

This act of showcasing love just for your need can damage someone mentally  healing is very difficult when the wound is given by someone whom you love from your soul . 

One should never break anyone's trust because once the trust is broken it will never build again. Getting over a heartbreak is difficult because true feelings never die.

Be loyal with your partner , don't fake a relationship .

BE CAREFUL IN CHOOSING YOUR LOVED ONES BECAUSE IT MAY BUILD YOU OR IT CAN EVEN DESTROY YOU .